Social Exchange Theory
Version 1.0.0 · Updated 2026-07-30
CORE DEFINITION
All interpersonal relationships (including friendship and love) are essentially exchanges of costs and benefits. If benefits (love, status, information) > costs (time, emotion, money), the relationship continues; otherwise, it ends.
SCAFFOLDING EFFECT
Reduce cognitive load
- Relationship checkup: If you feel a relationship is draining you, do the math. Is it a long-term 'deficit'? Rational relationships require a balance of reciprocity.
Anchor fast decisions
Interpersonal relationships are modeled as cost-benefit accounting: if benefits (love, status, information, support) exceed costs (time, emotion, money), the relationship is maintained; otherwise, it ends. It is a rational choice perspective on relationship dynamics, emphasizing reciprocal balance.
MINIMUM ACTION
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Source support: Explicit
- en.wikipedia.orghttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_exchange_theoryverified
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