Judging Others by Oneself
Updated 2026-08-10
INTRODUCTION
English translation pending.
CORE DEFINITION
Judging Others by Oneself describes the natural tendency to use one's own feelings and preferences as the model for another person's inner state, a process known in psychology as projection. Its core proposition is that this inference is the starting point of empathy and also the primary source of misunderstanding, so it must be treated as a hypothesis rather than a fact. The key qualifier is verification: the projection is useful only when it is checked against the other person's actual behavior and stated needs.
SCAFFOLDING EFFECT
Reduce cognitive load
- Starting hypothesis: use your own reaction to form an initial guess about what the other person feels. - Verification step: ask or observe in order to check whether the guess actually holds. - Difference flag: mark where their preference clearly diverges from yours and then update the model.
Anchor fast decisions
One's own mind is the only inner state directly accessible, so it becomes the default template for others. Where the other person's situation, culture, or disposition differs, the template generates confident but wrong predictions, and those predictions go unchallenged because they feel like understanding. Explicit verification replaces inference with evidence.
MINIMUM ACTION
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