Looking-Glass Self
Version 1.0.0 · Updated 2026-07-30
CORE DEFINITION
A person's self-awareness is not formed in isolation but through imagining how others evaluate them. I am not what I think I am, nor what you think I am; I am what I think you think I am.
SCAFFOLDING EFFECT
Reduce cognitive load
- Self-reconstruction: Understand the root of inferiority or arrogance. Often it's not that you are truly inadequate, but that the 'mirror' in your mind (your imagined evaluation by others) is distorted. Changing your environment (changing the mirror) can instantly change your self-perception.
Anchor fast decisions
Cooley proposed that an individual's self-concept is shaped by 'imagining how others see and evaluate me,' akin to recognizing oneself in a mirror.
MINIMUM ACTION
In progress 0/3Practice this model in one real situation:
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- en.wikipedia.orghttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Looking-glass_selfverified
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