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MENTAL MODEL · M1249

Ghosting

Ghosting
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Version 1.0.0 · Updated 2026-07-30

CORE DEFINITION

Cutting off all contact with someone suddenly, without any explanation or warning, and vanishing like a ghost. Scaffold role: facing avoidant conflict. This is a behavior that dodges emotional responsibility. If you have been ghosted, do not anxiously dwell on what you did wrong; it usually reflects the other party's lack of professionalism in handling conflict, not a measure of your worth.

SCAFFOLDING EFFECT

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- Face avoidant conflict: recognize that silence is a choice, not an accident needing your diagnosis. - Protect your self-worth: being ghosted reflects their conflict avoidance, not your value. - Refuse the information vacuum: name the silence and seek closure instead of endless rumination.

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Ghosting means suddenly cutting off all contact without notice, no longer replying, and leaving the other person suspended. It is common in dating, recruitment, and social life, using non-response to create an information vacuum, and it reflects the low cost of exit in digital relationships.

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