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CORE DEFINITION
The intense feeling of shame (embarrassment on behalf of another) that one experiences when seeing someone else make a fool of themselves or do something embarrassing, often even stronger than the person actually experiencing the situation.
SCAFFOLDING EFFECT
Reduce cognitive load
A side effect of mirror neurons. It is a manifestation of high empathy. In user experience design, it is important to avoid triggering this feeling in users (e.g., awkward copy, clumsy interactions), because this 'chill' can instantly sever emotional connection.
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When seeing someone else embarrass themselves, one experiences a strong sense of vicarious shame, stemming from mirror neurons simulating the other's emotions (a side effect of high empathy). It indicates that an observer's emotions can be activated by another's predicament, and it can instantly sever emotional connection.
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- en.wikipedia.orghttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vicarious_embarrassmentverified
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