Enmeshment
Version 1.0.0 · Updated 2026-07-30
CORE DEFINITION
Refers to the blurring of interpersonal boundaries among family members, with excessive involvement in each other's lives and emotions. Individual independence is stifled, and one person's emotions instantly infect everyone.
SCAFFOLDING EFFECT
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Establish healthy boundaries. It reveals the dark side of 'intimacy'. Healthy love requires 'I am me, you are you'. Recognizing enmeshment helps us regain our independent self from our family of origin or partner relationships.
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Family members have blurred boundaries, excessive involvement in each other's lives and emotions, individual independence is engulfed, and one person's emotions instantly infect the whole family. It is the dark side of 'intimacy', making self-differentiation impossible and mistaking relational tension for intimacy.
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- en.wikipedia.orghttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Enmeshmentverified
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