Prestige Trap
Version 1.0.0 · Updated 2026-07-30
CORE DEFINITION
Doing something not because you like it or it is valuable, but because it brings you 'prestige' (making parents proud, envied by peers). Prestige is like a powerful magnet that distorts your true preferences.
SCAFFOLDING EFFECT
Reduce cognitive load
Career disenchantment. When you are hesitant, ask yourself: 'If no one knew I was doing this, would I still do it?' If the answer is no, you might be falling into the prestige trap.
Anchor fast decisions
Prestige as an external incentive obscures intrinsic preferences; decisions are driven by 'what others think' rather than true value or liking, leading to goal alienation.
MINIMUM ACTION
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